RELATIONSHIP STRATEGIES- PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL.

RELATIONSHIP STRATEGIES- PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL. -PART I

Dear friends I am presenting this exclusive article article to acknowledge 'Relations'  both professional and Personal. It would be interesting to know that how to maintain relationship, extend relations and even rejuvenate the disrupted relations.rejuvenate relations  that have or had parted.

Relations-

A typical definition of relation has been vividly described, the dictionary defines relation as a person connected by blood or in marriage.

Whatever is the definition, relation ultimately leads to " Relationship".

Well, the dictionary defines "Relationship" as the state of being connected by blood or marriage. 

BASIC FACTORS TO MAINTAIN PERSONAL OR PROFESSIONAL RELATIONSHIPS-

• Loving self- This is the initial aspect considerable to love human beings. One must love self to love others.
• Trust or Faith - This may seem obvious, but so many people are with partners they don't trust or keep faith.
• Honesty- This is the Vital ingredient to continue relationships.
• Communication- Clear transparent communication with partners, participants and agreeable to self.
• Connection- Staying connected directly or indirectly leads to fairness in relationships.

 In order to maintain healthy relationships various concepts have been discussed and defined. The concepts are referred to as " Stable, Convergence"concepts, and are the part of "Relationship Strategies. Also known as Convergence Strategy Models. The convergence strategy models leads to establish, maintain and improve relationships. We shall also focus on the model of Walt-Boshear and Karl Albretcht relationship models in short which deals with concept of relationship-motions.

The concept of relationships strategy describes the forms of relationship viz - 

Stable Relationship, Converging or Diverging relationships.

Stable, Converging or Diverging Relationships-

Stable Relationships- 

In a stable relationship, two persons reach a conscious or unconscious agreement regarding the ways in which they will relate to each other, They avoid any behavior that will change the relationships. On the other hand, relationships that are in a state of change can in turn lead to become either 'Diverged  or Converged.

Converging and Diverging Relationships-

The converging relationship changes in such a manner that it enhances the benefits of the relationships to the persons involved into relations.

 The Diverging relationships however, changes in such a way that it tends to destroy the relationship or detracts from its benefits to the participants.

Let us now compare and understand the values and the essence of 'personal' and  'Impersonal' relationships. In fact it may be Stable, Converging or Diverging relationship they can be predominantly personal or predominantly impersonal.

At the 'Personal' extreme- The ego involvement of the participants- Their attitudes, beliefs, and feelings are an integral part of the of the relationship. On the other hand, emotional and personal issues are not considered in 'Impersonal ' relationships and will be disruptive to relationships if  they arise. 

 It is interesting to know that while an individual is growing up and passes through different phases of growth, then individuals are also influenced by 'Western Culture' and are pushed into the direction of 'Impersonal Stable Relationship'.  From Birth to Adolescence individuals cast in the roles of dependency and inadequacy. They are surrounded by people who, by virtue of their age and experience, are better able to cope with their environment. and who have been placed in the position of authority by cultural traditions of the society. They are strongly encouraged to refrain from making any emotional attachments except those that are approved by the society, such as courtship, marriage and friendship. In addition to the forces of culture that guide the individual in establishing and maintaining relationship with people, there are forces of time and exposure. The human intellectual and emotional system is highly adaptive and it tends towards stability. Experiences that initially may provoke a strong intellectual or emotional response will when sustained or repeated, will tend to elicit a lesser response.

Dear Friends I am closing the first part of this topic.I will continue with the Second Part shortly. 

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